Hi. Our baby is one to know. Her name is Anukul Kataia. She is not a lap kitty at all. She is more independent and only want to be rubbed when she demands it. We are more likely to find her curled up under us when we wake up in the middle of the night vs her allowing us to rub her during the day. She loves playing with our dogs (2 large 60 lb goldendoodles) and has no experience with other cats. She loves her toys and as many Temptation cat treats as she can get. She is not fixed and will still have heats.